Singles’ Guide to Christmas: Fun Things to Do Alone

Life Style
The Buzz Nepal
November 19 , 2025

Christmas is often shown as a festival built around romantic dates, cozy couple photos, and matching pajamas – but let’s be honest, not everyone spends the holiday that way. For many, Christmas is simply a peaceful day off. For others, it’s a time to reflect. And for a whole lot of young Nepalis, it’s just another day… with pretty lights, good food, great music, and endless ways to enjoy it solo.

Being single during Christmas doesn’t mean being lonely. In fact, it can be one of the most freeing ways to enjoy the season. Whether you’re healing, hustling, or simply choosing yourself, here’s a guide filled with fun, heartwarming ideas to make the holiday feel joyful, fulfilling, and entirely yours.

1. Create Your Own Christmas Ritual

Rituals don’t have to be traditional. They just need to make you feel good. This could be as simple as brewing your favorite winter drink every morning, lighting a scented candle, or playing a Christmas playlist that sets the vibe. Creating a small, personal ritual turns the day into something meaningful – something you look forward to. It can be your version of celebrating, your moment of peace before the world wakes up.

2. Take Yourself Out on a Festive Date

Kathmandu transforms beautifully during December, and you don’t need company to enjoy it. Put on a cozy outfit and head to a café with warm lighting, soft music, and holiday menus. Any new aesthetic spot in your neighborhood make solo dates feel special. Order your favorite dessert, sit by the window, and people-watch. Bring a book, sketchpad, or playlist – whatever feeds your soul.

A solo date is not just an “activity.” It’s a reminder that your own company is enough.

3. Spend the Day With Yourself – Digitally Detoxed

With social media full of holiday stories, it’s easy to compare your day with everyone else’s. But Christmas doesn’t have to be lived online. Put your phone aside for a few hours and let yourself be in the moment. Watch a movie without distraction, cook something slowly, clean your space, or journal. Giving your mind a break from the pressure of performing happiness online can make the day feel lighter and more intentional.

4. Do Something Creative

Christmas is the perfect excuse to make something – anything. Create handmade cards, bake cookies, decorate your room, paint your nails in festive colors, or start a small DIY project. Creative activities help shift your energy, keep your hands busy, and give you a sense of accomplishment. Even if it doesn’t look Pinterest-perfect, it’s yours. And that’s what makes it special.

5. Treat Yourself Like Your Favorite Person

Buy yourself a small gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive – just meaningful. A book, a new skincare product, a soft sweater, a candle, or even a festive drink mix. Wrap it if you want, add a note, open it later. This simple act teaches you something beautiful: you deserve effort, love, and intentionality – especially from yourself.

6. Have a Cozy Movie Marathon

There’s a reason holiday movie feel warm – they’re comforting, predictable, and full of hope. Pick a few favorites:

The Holiday
Love Actually
Klaus
Home Alone
Any cheesy Christmas rom-com
Prepare a blanket, hot chocolate, popcorn, and let yourself relax into the cozy chaos of festive storytelling.

7. Join a Community Event or Volunteer

Christmas is also a season of giving. Attend a local music event, Christmas market, or festive gathering. Many organizations in Nepal host charity drives, visits to children’s homes, or community celebrations. Volunteering not only fills your day with purpose but also connects you with new people and stories.

8. Reflect on Your Year & Set New Intentions

Use the quiet of the holiday to look back on your growth and challenges. Write down what you learned, what you want to leave behind, and what you want to welcome in the new year. It’s grounding and healing – especially when done alone.

The Joy of Christmas, Solo

Being single on Christmas isn’t a flaw or a missing piece – it’s a chance to celebrate in a way that’s fully, unapologetically yours. You don’t need a partner to make the day special. You just need intention, care, and a willingness to treat yourself kindly.

This Christmas, may your solo moments feel warm, meaningful, and beautifully yours.