Books to Read in Your 20s

Life Style
The Buzz Nepal
October 27 , 2025

Stories and Lessons to Shape the Decade That Shapes You

Your 20s are a whirlwind; a time of self-discovery, mistakes, new beginnings, and figuring out what truly matters. You’re building your career, nurturing relationships, and sometimes, just trying to make sense of it all. And while life doesn’t come with a manual, books can often feel like one – offering perspective, clarity, and comfort when everything seems uncertain.

So whether you’re sitting in a Thamel cafe with a latte in hand or scrolling through your Kindle on a long bus ride, here’s a list of must-read books that everyone in their 20s should pick up, each one a little guide to navigating this defining decade.

1. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

A story that has inspired millions across generations, The Alchemist follows Santiago, a shepherd boy chasing his dream of finding treasure. Along the way, he learns that the real treasure lies within the journey itself.
It’s a spiritual, philosophical, and deeply personal book that resonates especially when you’re unsure about your path. In your 20s, when you’re searching for meaning and purpose, The Alchemist is the perfect reminder that every detour leads somewhere important.

2. Atomic Habits by James Clear

Success doesn’t come from massive overnight changes; it’s the result of small, consistent actions. Atomic Habits breaks down the science of habit formation and teaches you how to replace bad habits with good ones.
For anyone in their 20s struggling with motivation, procrastination, or self-discipline, this book is a game-changer. It’s practical, actionable, and gives you tools to build the kind of life you want, “one habit at a time.”

3. The Defining Decade by Dr. Meg Jay

If there’s one book written specifically for people in their 20s, it’s this one. Clinical psychologist Meg Jay uses real-life stories and research to explain why your 20s aren’t just a throwaway decade but rather foundational for your future.
From career choices to relationships and self-identity, Jay emphasizes how the decisions you make now can shape your 30s, 40s, and beyond. It’s insightful, slightly confronting, and incredibly empowering.

4. Educated by Tara Westover

This powerful memoir follows Tara Westover’s journey from growing up in a strict, isolated family to earning a PhD from Cambridge University. Her story is about resilience, the pursuit of knowledge, and breaking free from the limitations of your past.
For readers in their 20s, especially those struggling with identity, independence, or family expectations, Educated is a reminder that transformation begins with courage.

5. Normal People by Sally Rooney

Love, friendship, and emotional vulnerability – Normal People captures the complexity of growing up and figuring out relationships in your 20s. Rooney’s minimalist yet deeply emotional writing makes it feel painfully real.
The novel follows Marianne and Connell as they navigate love, class differences, and self-worth from high school into adulthood. It’s a must-read if you’ve ever wondered why growing up sometimes means growing apart.

**6. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson**

This is not your typical self-help book. Mark Manson cuts through the noise with humor and blunt honesty, teaching that happiness isn’t about avoiding problems, it’s about choosing what’s worth your energy.
For 20-somethings drowning in social pressure or comparison, this book is like a breath of fresh air. It’s about setting boundaries, accepting imperfections, and realizing that not everything deserves your attention.

7. Becoming by Michelle Obama

In Becoming, former U.S. First Lady Michelle Obama shares her personal story – from her humble beginnings to her time in the White House. Her voice is authentic, vulnerable, and inspiring.
It’s more than a memoir; it’s a reflection on ambition, identity, and purpose. For anyone trying to balance career, relationships, and self-worth, Michelle’s words will resonate deeply.

8. Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

Written by a Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, this book explores the idea that meaning can be found even in the darkest of times. Frankl argues that life’s purpose isn’t about pleasure or success, it’s about finding meaning through struggle.
In your 20s, when uncertainty often feels overwhelming, this book offers profound wisdom and perspective on resilience, gratitude, and purpose.

Bonus Mention:

Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life– a thoughtful look at finding your purpose and balance.

Your 20s are about learning, not just through experience, but through the wisdom of others. These books won’t give you all the answers, but they’ll help you ask the right questions.

So, the next time you’re looking for inspiration, guidance, or simply a good story that speaks to your heart, pick one of these titles. Whether you’re sitting under the autumn sun in Patan or tucked in bed after a long day, these pages might just change the way you see your 20s, and yourself.